Nan girl posted a long rant! Marriage War: Soldier husband, dating for 7 years, cheats on a beer cheering girl – pampers him until he’s in debt of hundreds of thousands – lets him repay the debt. In the end, I blame her for ruining my life!
It has become a hot topic on social media. After a user of the Facebook account “Warootip Siriangkul” posted a message complaining about life. I met my husband serving in the military in a battalion in Nan Province. She has been married to her husband for over 7 years and has 2 children together, the eldest is 6 years old, the youngest is 10 months old.
But the husband became unfaithful and became attached to a young woman. The owner of the post claims to be a girl cheering for beer. Until the husband was in a lot of debt because he used the money to pamper the woman. Plus, the man scolded him for ruining his life. until she couldn’t stand the behavior
She stated that “When marriage wars happen in our real lives now We have been married and have been married to our husband for 7 years. We have 2 children together, the eldest is 6 years old (the younger one used to be sick with brain cancer and has now been cured for 2 years). The youngest is just 10 months old. The beginning is Chuang. Around the end of 2022, my husband began to incur debts that we never knew about. (I found out later that I was addicted to gambling and other things.) I found out when he came to confess and came to hide behind me, pretending to cry, saying that I owed more than 100,000 baht on my credit card. and in the loan app, over ten thousand more
Let’s apologize for what went wrong. Ready to borrow about 7 thousand to pay off debt in the loan app, we gave it to him. After that, he kept asking to borrow money. Ten thousand at a time Some thousands, sometimes quoted here and there. including asking to borrow money from our relatives and mother But I didn’t use it back. We must always be the ones to repay our debts. And lied and tricked me into asking to borrow our car to finance, took out 150,000 baht, said to use it to pay off credit card debt. He said he would wait for the cooperative loan to be closed at the end of the month. But none came to close. He secretly stole 1 baht of our gold and pawned it. We had to redeem our own gold, amounting to over 20,000 baht.
We moved to this new house in April 2021. My husband’s main expenses are paying the house bill, internet bill, while we pay all the expenses for both children, milk, pampers, tuition fees, clothes, snacks, electricity bills, supplies. Various things in the house, food costs, and when traveling, we are the ones who pay for almost all the expenses. And we came to help pay the house bill from August 2023, internet fees, and car debt on his behalf.
Since October 2023, my husband has had serious money problems. Until we started to be unable to help anymore. Until he asked to move to work on the mountain in Chiang Mai. He promised I’m going to work to save money and pay off debt. and do it for the children and for the family for career advancement Asked to improve himself, we believed and trusted him. In October, he moved as desired. In the middle of the month he started to recover. Rarely contacted, acted abnormally My child calls from 7:00 p.m. onwards. I almost never answer the phone. (I found out later that I went to see that woman.)
After that, a court summons for hundreds of thousands of credit card debts was sent to the house. We are very distressed and stressed. make an argument We couldn’t stand the behavior so we just broke up like an angry person. But he refused to give up and still asked for a chance to improve himself again. In November, he took his child to a doctor’s appointment in Chiang Mai. Go to sleep at his house. We were met with a bunch of false eyelashes. We asked who we were bringing to bed. He denies it and makes various claims, so we can only suspect but have no evidence.
Until the beginning of January, a well-wisher greeted me and said that my husband was having an affair, with this name, working as a cheerleader selling drinks (now released) at a liquor store in Chiang Mai. My husband went to watch. Pick up and drop off every day. Take me to buy this and eat it. Take him to sleep at the house. My friends at work all know. But no one wants to bother. They went together to the mountain during New Year’s at the beginning of January ’24 but told us that they were going to send their boss to work. There was no signal on the mountain and he disappeared for a full day.
After that he took leave and went home. Stayed home with us and the child for only 5 days, claiming to us that he had to hurry back, had a shift, and called him to drive the car for him. When we found out, there was a resolution with both the husband and the woman. He promised to break up with both of us. But after that we kept finding out that he was still dating, still going out, still living together every day. The woman tried to post a picture of her husband’s belongings, a picture of him holding hands, going on a trip, and then tagging another IG that her husband had reapplied.
In February, my husband came home. He still hasn’t finished. We always greet each other and call. Friends, brothers, father, mother, aunts, husband’s side all know. So we sent a message to the woman telling her to break up with our husband. (Here we are impatient) But we were scolded by a woman who spoke insultingly and disdainfully. We once called and talked to the woman’s mother and older sister and told her about the woman’s behavior. His mother and sister were informed. I will warn you to stop messing with my husband. But the woman instead realized and stopped bothering. Instead, they scolded us for posting on Story Facebook. Speak to hurt us.
Until we had a quiet investigation. Until it was discovered that they lived together openly. They all went to the camp house. Pick up and drop off at the liquor store. where women go to work We secretly followed him to his house. Found women’s clothing in the husband’s room. At first they went to the women’s dormitory first, but the two didn’t dare open the door to find them. It was cleared up again. It’s like everything is over.
But then he refused to give up. He refuses to break up with us. and refused to break up with that woman We went to report the matter to the agency that the husband I had an affair and asked to transfer him back to his old job to help us take care of the children. We asked the agency: He broke discipline Isn’t there a rule at the residence that doesn’t allow outsiders to stay? Then the husband took another woman to stay openly like that. Why weren’t they punished at all? The agency was quiet and just said that they would transfer the husband.
When my husband learned that he had been transferred, he became furious with us. Speech and utter disrespect, scolding us that we were spoiled, that we had gone to our mother, threatened, insulted us, asked to divorce us, so we called him for 500,000 baht and signed the divorce papers. He refused, scolded us on his Facebook page that we had a bad nature, bad mouth, money in front of women. That person posted pictures of them together and some sarcastic remarks. In the story on Facebook, IG insults us and makes us sad again. and blocked our Facebook page. Alimony has never been given as salary, allowance for every baht we and our children have never received. Plus we are still helping him with money. There is no common sense on both sides.
And then we just found out before he returned that he took the child’s tuition money that we paid for. that let him be the one who picked up But he took all that money and used it to eat and travel with that woman. Money for traveling to take your child to check-ups at the doctor’s appointments We paid it all ourselves. which can be withdrawn with one project He secretly took it and used it alone. We once asked him about withdrawing this money. But he lied, Never received any money at all, which when we talked with the agency He said that his husband came to withdraw money every time and got money every time.
Nowadays, her husband has moved back to work at the same place. The husband had the woman sent to him. Or moving things in together, we really don’t know. Because since moving The husband didn’t even come to the house to see the children. But take that woman to the pub.
until we posted his bird for sale Made him very angry at us. and came into the house in the afternoon Come take the rest of the birds. and came to talk and ask the child if they were going to live together Tell our mother to let us divorce him. Then he will take the child and raise it himself. That our mother raised us badly, that we were not good, that we scolded him in stories for not being in front of him. Call me every word you say to my mother. Slandering us for taking a new husband I’ve slept with a man. Even though we work from 6:00 a.m., come home at noon to see our children, and finish work at 6:00 p.m. and come home every day. I’ve never gone anywhere. With a child who never goes to pick him up, with that woman who always goes to pick him up, this is what hurts me the most. When I come home on holidays, my children are hardly home. have to go somewhere else Go talk to that woman. You can almost count your child’s face for hours.
As of now, we have filed adultery charges. The woman acknowledged that she had received a subpoena. But I still don’t fear the law for what I do. By continuing to be together openly, we came out to share because we couldn’t stand being insulted. Men keep telling other people that we are bad and disrespectful to them. Create an image of yourself as a correct person. But I never felt like I was wrong. Hopefully this story will warn women. Many people, we have to honor ourselves and love ourselves very much.”
However, after such a post There were many Facebook users who came to comment and share.
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