A senior actor and his wife reveal their 25-year love journey, almost losing their lover and never returning.

How did you meet at the beginning of love?
Game: The starting point is that there is already a business at home. And coincidentally, Ning’s father was a soldier under his father and they worked together. One day when he graduated, Ning’s father came to work at the office.

When you meet someone for the first time, you immediately fall in love?
Game: I’m not in love yet, but the first time I saw Ning I laughed. That is, why does his face look so similar to his father? (laughs) Why is it so similar? But when we met his mother, we laughed even more. I know what my wife looks like when she’s old.

But at that time, Brother Ning already had a boyfriend?
Ning: Yes, I already have a boyfriend. And at that time they were about to get married. He’s already asked for it. Already talked with parents But with the fact that they probably aren’t a couple They had problems and then broke up.

At that time, we met as brothers or friends. How are you feeling?
Ning: At first I was just indifferent. I didn’t think anything of it. We saw that he was an adult, formidable, fierce, but when he worked, he seemed fun and funny, so he didn’t tense up much at that time.

We are free, what is the beginning of love like?
Game: It was from me first when I saw him making a lame face. Then he walked over and asked if he was heartbroken. At that time, I didn’t know. That’s all he cried. I wasn’t happy at that time. When I saw it, it made me feel good, but not to the extent that I had to…

Really, P’Kem is a foul-mouthed person but you like him to the fullest extent?
Game: At that time, I still slowly watched it.

What makes you ask if you’re heartbroken?
Game : He is very telling. There are few things about women. Well, I’m not heartbroken, I’ve argued with my father and mother. Disagreement with friends It only exists here.

At that time, Brother Ning was 25 years old?
Ning: Around 24-25, at that time, when he asked me if I was heartbroken or not, I was angry, angry that he asked me like this. In our hearts we are also ashamed. Because I wasn’t alone in front of him. There are other siblings also. We ran to the bathroom and cried. After that, I don’t remember the moment but I was angry too.

Do you know that he’s angry?
Game: I don’t know if I’m angry. But I know it’s broken and is it true? I’m asking directly.

And what is the responsibility of manly men like us?
Game: We didn’t get anything. Just telling you to take it easy.

So when did you start selling dumplings?
Game: I can’t remember.

Ning: He started by inviting me to eat first. We had a strange feeling that, eh, why did you invite us to eat? That means during Saturdays and Sundays when you don’t work. It felt like there was probably something going on. Okay, because at that time we didn’t have a boyfriend.

How did they invite you?
Ning: I remember he invited me to eat at a restaurant near Sukhumvit. That is, we’re still not sure that he’s flirting. Due to their different ages, they are also actors. And we were just ordinary children. At that time, I wasn’t sure at all. But we gave it a try. It wasn’t launched or anything. Because at that time no one even knew.

In the drama at that time he was very famous. The role of a flirtatious bad boy. In real life, when they come to sell us dumplings, does it seem likeable?

Ning: At that time, Brother Game was quite concerned for us and helped us. So I have a feeling that he must be honest with us. But there will be many. Trends from friends Or do people around you think they’re okay? Does he already have a family? because there had been news at that time We weren’t quite sure.

When we hear news like this, does it make us retreat or do we want to fight for a bit?
Ning: At that time, I really stepped back, secretly backed up a little. I’m not quite sure. But at that time, I admitted that there were other people I talked to as well. But P’Kem didn’t know (laughs). After that, it gradually became better.

We have to have a secret relationship. What is the reason?
Game: At that time, I didn’t hide or hide. But Ning is not in the industry. And at that time, the home office was fully open. A little over a year later, the IMF era occurred, so we had to stop helping. When we came back to act in a drama, we didn’t have any exposure, but our friends knew. We didn’t hide it, we didn’t hide it, we didn’t hide it, we didn’t hide it. Or wherever we went, we sat down to eat together and it was openly revealed. It’s just not news.

Is it true that as a star, you don’t want to open up if you have a boyfriend because you’re afraid that your fans will disappear?
Game: Yes, the generation before me has gone to another generation since P’ Aed Sombat. It will have to be closed soon because people won’t like it. But in our generation it can be considered open.

Ning: After we started dating for a while, he would take us to the camp to eat with friends. We went and we felt a little more confident.

But do you know that there is a story that is buried in my heart because P’Ning has secretly liked P’Game for a long time?
Game : He once hinted to me that he would listen.

Ning: That is, since childhood. Your father is P’Game’s subordinate. During that time, Phi Game would bring his friends. Go to a party at the club We were about 10 years old at that time and our father took us to say hello to P’Kem’s father. In my heart I thought that he was handsome. He looked at the pink skin. I also remember the color of the shirt he wore that day. It’s strange, but we just stood there looking at the stars. But I didn’t think to that point.

They both have sweet stories. But there was a story where they almost broke up?
Game: Well, Ning’s house was not born like my house. At our house, they would hug each other and kiss each other. He was like, why do you have to do that with a hug? Until one day I met friends. Then he came and hugged me. Ning was shocked. But it doesn’t feel sexual in any way. It was just a normal hug.

Ning: That’s what we see when he hugs with older siblings. The actors didn’t get to that. But there is a feeling that we just don’t understand their customs. Asked if I’m jealous, I’m not jealous. We have a similar feeling of not being sure if he is okay with us or not, is it sincere or not? Typical characteristics of women. And he is a playful person, a funny person, and when he meets anyone he will tease him. So it makes us feel a little bit that nowadays we can accept it. Brother Game wants to hug anyone as he pleases.

Even though they are different in age, he is very romantic?
Ning: P’Kem is a very romantic person. Normally, before going to bed, P’Kem would come and kiss me every night. When I go to work, he will already smell it. Sometimes when he goes to sleep with his mother, he has to kiss her and let us kiss her, but we will just nip at him. But the puppy always smells good.

Do you have any reservations about declaring your love? Because it seems like Phi Game often tells you he loves you?
Game: No, it’s already gotten to this point. It’s more about us caring about each other than what we’ve done, Line said.

Ning: We express it in love. That is, when we are together, we will play with each other and tease each other for fun.

But there are events. One that looks like Brother Game will lose Brother Ning. What happened?
Game: It’s been a little over a year now. My father just passed away more than 2 years ago, and I haven’t been around for less than a year, but I can’t remember the date. It was around September of last year. He called up and told me to come and see him. Because I slept with my mother. When I entered the room, I saw that he was sweating all over and said he couldn’t breathe and would vomit. I went to pick up a trash can in case he vomited. Because as soon as I put the potty down, he flips over. We grabbed him and after about 10 seconds he was blinded and not breathing. We told his mother and called an ambulance. At that time, a hand was supporting him. Another hand pumped his heart. By that time, my jaw was completely frozen. I put my hand over his mouth and blew for a little over a minute. He gasped. Only when the blood was pumping did his expression change. There’s blood pumping. At that time, the anus had opened. What urine came out? His father doesn’t even know yet.

What caused the event?
Game: He went to the doctor and it was like the wind outside his stomach was difficult to digest. And what kind of vegetables does he like to eat? When there is a lot of air outside the stomach, it pushes. So he couldn’t breathe. At that time, I stopped breathing. The brain is fine because it hasn’t stopped breathing for a long time. Well, I have a private school at home and I used to teach how to make a living, so when it comes to CPR, we know what to do.

And what did you say to him then?
Game: At that time, I said to him, “No.” Not allowed to go We call him pumping the heart like that. Pump for just a few minutes. At that time, I asked if I was shocked. I mean, when something like this happens, I keep quiet. After he took a breath, I was relieved. But I still looked at him and held him and sat him against me. But my sweat is like water.

As a result of this incident, the couple decided not to have any heirs together. But what is it like making a will?
Game: The story of not having children We talked for a long time, since the first year or two of our marriage, that we could live together as two people. After that, he went and read a book and then talked about future plans.

Will you come back to work in the entertainment industry now? Or fade away to Phetchaburi?
Game: That’s not true. We still work in the entertainment industry. But Ning still runs a bakery in Phetchaburi. I went to help him. But work in the industry is still accepted as usual.